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There is a lady I met and I'm considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me.
The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet.
Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.
Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely...she said she was "disappointed".
I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I will give her. She pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention to the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature.
Her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her... i wont even talk to her about it.
Please can this type of lady ever change after marriage?.
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